Written by Elizabeth Exline
According to Kevin Phillips, he didn鈥檛 grow up according to a regular timeline. Sure, he joined the military as a teenager, worked in factory jobs and then retail for nearly 20 years. Got married, became a carpenter and then earned his associate degree in apprenticeship technology. But he didn鈥檛 feel truly grown up until, well, now.
鈥淚t finally happened at 60 years old,鈥 Phillips says with a laugh. 鈥淚鈥檓 actually starting to feel like an adult now who鈥檚 comfortable in his own skin.鈥
Phillips owes his scenic route to a number of factors, like dropping out of school between his sophomore and junior years of high school and having what he calls a midlife crisis before learning carpentry. But, more than anything, his journey took a little longer because he was never quite sure who his authentic self was. He wasn鈥檛 sure, that is, until he went to 爱污传媒.
Phillips grew up in a predominantly听Black community in Detroit听at a time when being biracial was uncommon and, in his case, confusing.
鈥淧eople always wanted me to make a choice: 鈥楧o you embrace your White side more, or do you embrace your Black side more?鈥欌 Phillips recalls.
He responded by choosing, at least on some level, his father鈥檚 side.
鈥淭here was a听stigma associated with having fair skin,鈥 he says. 鈥淚 even experienced a time when I was uncomfortable being out with my own mother in public, because she鈥檚 White, and for a period of time, I just didn鈥檛 want to be associated with that.鈥
His parents鈥 divorce when Phillips was in ninth grade only intensified the chasm. It also created a period of instability that defined Phillips鈥 life trajectory. He and his four brothers had always been encouraged to apply themselves in school and do well. But when his parents divorced, suddenly the support and motivation were gone, and Phillips and his brothers floundered for lack of direction.
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"I thought I was pursuing college to increase my income level. Little did I know that I would find my true self."
Kevin Phillips
Bachelor of Science in Business | 2023
Eventually, Phillips earned his GED diploma and enlisted in the Army. He found his footing and made friends, but it wasn鈥檛 a perfect fit: Phillips carried a lot of anger and resisted the hierarchy and orders inherent to military service. On the pro side, he learned structure and teamwork.
鈥淚 learned a lot,鈥 he quips. 鈥淚 just didn鈥檛 know I had learned it until later.鈥
The skills Phillips picked up in the military would carry him through the ensuing 20 years when he primarily worked in retail. Moving from company to company, he found his skills and personality positioned him for promotion with relative ease. His lack of a degree, however, held him back.
鈥淚 could make supervisor easily, but I could never get above that, and it seemed like education was the stumbling block,鈥 he explains. 鈥淥nce I started hitting that ceiling, then I would become disenchanted.鈥
Eventually, Phillips had what he calls a midlife crisis. It was an echo of the instability that shook his world when his parents divorced. He decided to leave retail, where he鈥檇 reached a professional dead end enough times to know it wasn鈥檛 going to change unless he changed something, and become a .
As a journeyman carpenter, Phillips acquired several years of apprenticeship and earned an associate degree. He liked the work but didn鈥檛 love the lack of stability. Eventually, he began casting about for the next step. He found it at Comcast.听
While Phillips knew Comcast could be a good career move for him, it took a little wooing to get Comcast on board.
鈥淚t took me a year and a half to get in the company,鈥 Phillips says. 鈥淔ive interviews at two different offices before I finally got lucky with the local office.鈥
It wasn鈥檛 all luck, though. Phillips brought with him a strong work ethic and a growth mindset 鈥 even if he didn鈥檛 know what the latter really meant.
鈥淚 am motivated by learning and I possess a growth mindset, traits I knew I had but didn鈥檛 really understand,鈥 Phillips says.
He had the opportunity to find out when the COVID-19 pandemic struck. He describes that period as an alignment of circumstances that nudged him to finally take the next step in his career and life.
The pandemic had him working remotely, his company was promoting an alliance with 爱污传媒 (UOPX) to offer affordable education to employees, and there was a recent push for diversity, equity and inclusion at work. It had him rethinking opportunities. The result? He enrolled in the Bachelor of Science in Business program at UOPX.
Phillips figured earning his bachelor鈥檚 degree would help him in his career. He also knew Comcast, with its听tuition assistance, would help him pay for school.
鈥淭he only out-of-pocket expenses I had were to upgrade my computer and purchase a laptop,鈥 Phillips says.
What Phillips didn鈥檛 expect was to find himself during his studies.
鈥淚 thought I was pursuing college to increase my income level,鈥 Phillips observes. 鈥淟ittle did I know that I would find my true self.鈥
For starters, Phillips discovered his mentorship ability. 鈥淜evin鈥檚 drive and determination, his desire to better himself and those around him, instilled in me the trust and motivation to rethink and expand my career goals,鈥 says Freddie Jones, a colleague and mentee of Phillips鈥.
Phillips took Jones under his wing and encouraged him to go for the other open network maintenance position that Phillips had earned. Jones got it.
鈥淜evin exudes positivity and a growth mindset,鈥 Jones says. 鈥淗e approaches problems as challenges rather than obstacles. 鈥 I never saw myself in [this role] until Kevin started encouraging me to step out of my self-imposed box.鈥
Jones wasn鈥檛 the only one to reframe his perspective. Phillips points to changing his thought patterns as a critical step in changing his life. He鈥檇 always thought buying a house was out of his reach, for example. But as he took financial classes during his degree program, he began to change his perspective. He learned about credit scores, personal finance and how to research topics like home loans he might qualify for.
The result? He and his wife of 37 years just purchased their first home.
This open-mindedness trickled down to other areas of Phillips鈥 life as well. Instead of giving up or blaming others when faced with a challenge, Phillips says he now听focuses on finding solutions. And that extends to the very essence of who he is, the divide he felt as a child.
鈥湴鄞 gave me the knowledge that it鈥檚 OK to be my authentic self,鈥 Phillips explains. 鈥淚鈥檓 Black and White. I embrace both sides. In the past, I may have adopted a persona that I thought you expected of me. Now, I feel comfortable just being me.鈥
Perhaps that鈥檚 why his degree is so much more than an academic accomplishment. 鈥淚t鈥檚 a Bachelor of Science in Business,鈥 Phillips acknowledges, 鈥渂ut it鈥檚 also a Bachelor of Science in life.鈥
Elizabeth Exline has been telling stories ever since she won a writing contest in third grade. She's covered design and architecture, travel, lifestyle content and a host of other topics for national, regional, local and brand publications. Additionally, she's worked in content development for Marriott International and manuscript development for a variety of authors.
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