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By Elizabeth Exline
Cristina Gudiel likes to keep things real. You can see it in the way she carries herself, making eye contact and speaking plainly. You can hear it in the way she tells stories. (When recounting how her grandmother has acquired multiple houses in California, she quotes the matriarch as saying, 鈥淏ecause I didn鈥檛 buy Starbucks coffee for $4.鈥) And you can feel it in the way no topic or anecdote is off limits.
Gudiel鈥檚 open authenticity stems from both a happy childhood and her ambition to achieve the American dream. Her father came from Mexico and worked in the agricultural fields of Salinas, California before building a career as an electrician. Her mother also emigrated from Mexico. She stayed home while Gudiel and her siblings were young but then found work once they grew up.
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Hard work, in other words, has been the bedrock of her family鈥檚 existence in Southern California. Gudiel watched as her parents sacrificed and clocked in day after day so she could attend private school as a child. When she started and then stopped attending college, Gudiel followed her family鈥檚 example and worked while raising her three children and two stepchildren.
But work will only get you so far. As Gudiel discovered some 25 years after graduating high school, achieving the American dream also requires agility, innovation and sometimes education.
What鈥檚 more: For every person who makes good on her potential, there are many more who are watching. And it鈥檚 for those eyes 鈥 of her children and her peers 鈥 that Gudiel pushed herself across the finish line to earn both her听Bachelor of Business Management听and her听Master of Business Administration.
Here's how she became a role model who鈥檚 inspired her children and friends to achieve their own educational dreams.
My mom was telling me the story of how she and my dad were going to get separated when I was young. She said, 鈥淵ou guys were going to go with me to Mexico, and your dad said, 鈥榃hat are you doing? What kind of a future do our kids have over there? We struggle to pay for these private schools for them to graduate college.鈥 We got back together because of that, and then you didn鈥檛 graduate college!鈥
Then my son told me the next day, 鈥淢om, you make so much money, you don鈥檛 even need a 产补肠丑别濒辞谤鈥檚 degree.鈥 But the last recession, I got let go from my job. We lost our house because I didn鈥檛 have the titles. I had to start from the bottom and move up because I didn鈥檛 have those degrees. So, I just logged on and said, 鈥淚 don鈥檛 care what it costs. I鈥檓 going to do it.鈥
When I walked the stage at graduation, my children were so proud.听
My dad went to Cal State and completed an electrical program. He always told us, 鈥淚鈥檓 not asking you guys to be astronauts or lawyers or doctors. I just want you to be the best at whatever you want to be. And you need to be at a job where you鈥檙e happy. So, I don鈥檛 care if you鈥檙e a dishwasher. You鈥檙e the best dishwasher in that company.鈥
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That always stuck with me. It鈥檚 why, whatever job I was working, I was the best. And that鈥檚 why I moved up.
Then my mom always said, 鈥淵ou gotta make your own money, because if anything doesn鈥檛 work out, you have to make your own money.鈥
My dad鈥檚 brother was also always going to school. It took him 10 years to graduate at Cal State Long Beach. He wasn鈥檛 even born here, and he did it. 听And my grandpa, he worked so hard in those fields. He only went to second grade, but he kept pushing and pushing.
Then the support of my husband was amazing. I鈥檇 be like, 鈥淵eah, quesadillas and whatever that man can make is what鈥檚 for dinner.鈥 He was really supportive and just like, 鈥淚 got this. Don鈥檛 worry.鈥
So, I had really strong, working people all around me.
Staying humble, knowing where you come from and never letting any job go to your head. Treating people with respect. And I think education is also so important. If I knew everything I know now after going through my 产补肠丑别濒辞谤鈥檚 and 尘补蝉迟别谤鈥檚 programs, I would鈥檝e been such a better manager than I was.听
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I鈥檓 so fortunate to see the difference between my family who stayed in Mexico and my own children. It guides me to where I want to help the next employee or even the next student. I had students in my classes who were immigrants. It鈥檚 like, 鈥淵ou know what? Let me help you a little bit more. Let me help you with your tutor.鈥 I want everybody to keep climbing up.
That it鈥檚 attainable. It was really hard 鈥 some of the homework was excruciating 鈥 but you also have so much support from the ground up at 爱污传媒. Don鈥檛 be afraid to do it; just do it.
That he鈥檚 so proud of me. That I鈥檓 an amazing woman.
That鈥檚 hard to hear from Mexican parents. My mom especially. She would never say, 鈥淥K, good job.鈥 She鈥檇 always say, 鈥淥K, keep going.鈥
Then I graduated, and she just hugged me so hard and said, 鈥淚鈥檓 so proud of you. What a great example for your kids. And thank you. Thank you for making our American dream worth it.鈥
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