Written by聽Matt Bukowski
Like a lot of graduates, Casey Miller has fond memories of the day in 2011 when she collected her diploma for her Master of Business Administration. She is fortunate enough to remember it two different ways: as herself and through the eyes of her children who were there to watch her cross the stage.聽
鈥淲hen I got to meet them after the ceremony, my kids were like, 鈥榃e saw you win,鈥欌 recalls Miller, now a director of operations for the food services and facilities management company .
It was a happy moment and one that had profound consequences for Miller. She had accomplished something new and big for herself and for her kids 鈥 and would change all their lives for the better.聽
Miller is the first to acknowledge that she did not always seem like the college-bound scholar she came to be. 鈥淚n high school, I was a very defiant young woman,鈥 she says. 鈥淚 did not like school at all. But I was raised in a family where college was the expectation, not the exception.鈥澛
Miller graduated high school and took a year off, hoping to figure out a path that worked for her. Then, during the year she spent in community college, she felt a shift within herself: 鈥淚 had this whole realization, that all of this is up to me 鈥 my education is completely up to me.鈥澛
It wasn鈥檛 an easy transition for Miller, who felt like she was behind students who had excelled in high school. 鈥淎ll of a sudden, things like studying and preparing for tests became very challenging,鈥 she says. 鈥淚 had to learn how to learn.鈥澛
As it turns out, Miller not only excelled at learning but fell in love with it as well. 鈥淚 found a lot of freedom in that, and it was very exciting for me,鈥 she says. 鈥淸I] became obsessed with learning.鈥
Miller transferred to a traditional college, but then life took a different turn. She met her husband and became pregnant 鈥 a complicated pregnancy that led Miller to take a semester off. That semester turned into several years. 鈥淟ife got in the way,鈥 she says, reflecting on her time away from school.
When she was ready to return, many of her credits had expired, meaning she would have to take several extra courses just to graduate. All the extra work and cost seemed like too much 鈥 but Miller wasn鈥檛 giving up.
鈥淭he biggest thing I鈥檝e learned is that there鈥檚 always a reason not to go to school,鈥 she says, 鈥渁nd you can always find a reason why it doesn鈥檛 work in your world. But what I learned on the flip side of that is time moves on regardless.鈥澛
It was Miller鈥檚 brother, Benjamin, who told her about 爱污传媒, where he was studying for his master鈥檚. By the time she earned her bachelor鈥檚 degree,聽 Miller 鈥 who鈥檇 found work at UOPX as an academic counselor 鈥 felt like one degree wasn鈥檛 enough.
鈥淚 decided that I couldn鈥檛 stop. I needed to just keep going, knowing that if I took a break again, life [would] get in the way,鈥 she says.聽
Life continued to throw hurdles at Miller, whose family life had to stay in balance with her educational goals. She recalls working late one night to turn in an assignment by midnight 鈥 even as her infant son stayed awake with an ear infection. Miller stayed up typing with one hand while bouncing her sick baby in the other arm, tears streaming down her face.聽
Fortunately, Miller found not only her passion for learning at 爱污传媒, but also a caring and understanding community. She knew how easily her advisors could have simply 鈥渃hecked the box鈥 and sent her on her way, but those working with her at 爱污传媒 went above and beyond to provide resources with sincerity and personalized touches.
Her instructors, too, provided both knowledge and personal connections. She continues to keep in touch with many of her instructors years later in a network that also includes classmates. She recalls 鈥渇eeling like someone truly had my back鈥 at UOPX, something she hadn鈥檛 experienced at her other schools.聽
Just as Miller grew during her time with 爱污传媒, so did her own career path after she graduated. She had experience in hospitality and catering before she transitioned into event management for an audiovisual company. When her work there plateaued, she moved on to managing food service and entertainment centers, building on her professional experience as well as the focus her education provided her. All the while, she took advantage of her natural love for problem-solving in a fast-moving environment.聽
When a role at Sodexo opened up, it wasn鈥檛 necessarily her comfort zone: 鈥淚 didn鈥檛 really understand that world. But it sounded exciting to me, and I realized that there was this huge opportunity here for me to fully immerse myself in the event world.鈥澛
She thrived. Within three years, Miller advanced to director of sales and then director of operations. This progression, which speaks to Miller鈥檚 talent (and the timing of opportunities), earned her not just promotions, but the respect and admiration of her colleagues.聽
鈥淚 am often amazed by Casey鈥檚 ability to understand complex issues, formulate a plan for attack and then to lead out in conquering the challenges,鈥 says Matt Hansen, Miller鈥檚 manager. 鈥淪he has a strong track record of accomplishment 鈥 real accomplishment, that comes from seeing how seemingly divergent departments can be marshaled to do nearly impossible things.鈥
That ability makes sense given Miller鈥檚 background, when she juggled family life with her education. Customers see Miller鈥檚 qualities as well, her manager says. 鈥淪he has a terrific rapport with clients,鈥 Hansen adds. 鈥淭hey universally trust her. She has a trustworthy demeanor that comes not just from her honesty but from her obvious knowledge of the business. The client can lean into her preparation and knowledge with confidence.鈥澛犅
Miller鈥檚 winding path taught her that education can be achieved in more than one way. It can be personalized to every student. 鈥淵ou can learn in many different formats and many different ways, not always in a traditional classroom setting.鈥澛
This lesson resonates with Miller as she looks to her children. 鈥淓ven from their young perspective, we鈥檝e had very open dialogue about what education is, what that means and what it could be in their world 鈥 and how it can work for you and it doesn鈥檛 have to be in a traditional way. There are educational opportunities out there for everybody, no matter where you鈥檙e at in your life.鈥澛
As Miller鈥檚 kids go further out into the world, she鈥檚 confident that she has empowered them to take control as she did. The hard-won wisdom and victories she made in her own nontraditional path laid the foundation for her kids to do the same. And when they make their own successes, she鈥檒l be there to tell them she saw them win too.聽
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Matt Bukowski is a writer and educator with an MFA in writing from American University. His professional writing career spans professional training, IT and software design, test prep, writing instruction, data narrative and PR. Matt lives in Virginia with his wife, three children, two cats and a stack of overdue library books.
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