Written by Elizabeth Exline
鈥淚 remember my dad always said, 鈥榊ou need to get a degree. Just get a degree.鈥欌
Oscar Bustamante recalls this piece of advice while reflecting on his own bumpy road to earning his bachelor鈥檚 degree in business management. Bustamante鈥檚 dad had argued that a degree was necessary for intelligently conversing with others and contributing to society, never mind achieving one鈥檚 career goals.
But at the time, a callow Bustamante was skeptical. What good was a math degree, he asked, or knowing esoteric facts?
He sees now that he was missing the point.
The good news? Life has a way of presenting challenges over and over until you master the lesson you need to learn. For Bustamante, it turned out that getting his degree was not only his destiny but also a challenge that would bring him closer to his father.
His dad, Bustamante says, explained that a degree meant 鈥溾榶ou鈥檙e educated enough to throw your two cents in. You don鈥檛 have to know the formulas of science, but you can, when they start talking about pi and X+Y, know what that means.鈥欌
Bustamante moved around a lot as a kid thanks to his dad鈥檚 military career. But by the 鈥70s, his family had put down roots in Texas where Bustamante started middle school. According to him, his sister was the princess who could do no wrong while he was the proverbial black sheep for whom sports held more allure than schoolwork. When he pictured his future, he says, he pictured a career in baseball or basketball.
Bustamante鈥檚 parents eventually divorced. His dad went back to school to earn a business degree and then got a job with the Immigration and Naturalization Service. Bustamante says that鈥檚 when the push for him to go to college really started. His dad eventually offered to pay for college on the condition that Bustamante kept up his grades.
鈥淪o I went to school, and the first thing I heard was that you don鈥檛 have to come to class if you don鈥檛 want to come to class,鈥 Bustamante says.
He鈥檚 not the first college student to hear those words and promptly fail out of his first semester. But his father wasn鈥檛 joking.
鈥淢y father said, 鈥榊ou know, I鈥檓 sorry, but I鈥檓 not going to pay for your school anymore. You have to learn the hard way,鈥欌 Bustamante says.
The hard way meant getting by on odd jobs and minimum wage which, in 1976, was $2.30 an hour. Eventually, Bustamante took a job as a delivery driver. The pay was good, and his responsibilities were few, but when his father had a heart attack, his life changed again.
鈥淚 went to see him on what we thought was his deathbed 鈥 and he said, 鈥楽on, I need for you to graduate. I need you to go to school. I can鈥檛 die unless I know that you are OK,鈥欌 Bustamante recalls.聽
Bustamante made the promise, but once again, life got in the way. His employer wouldn鈥檛 support his return to school, so he quit and took a job as a substitute teacher. He got married and helped raise his stepchild, appreciating the flexibility substitute teaching offered.
Then, in 1995, Bustamante鈥檚 family welcomed the arrival of his newborn son. And suddenly (to borrow the parlance of the millennials) he adulted.
鈥淯p until that point, I wasn鈥檛 really responsible,鈥 Bustamante says. 鈥淚 was married 鈥 I gave her all the love I could, but I always thought, You know, if this doesn鈥檛 work, I can leave. 鈥 But when I had Tony, that鈥檚 when I fell in love 鈥 and I said, 鈥業 need to do something for this child.鈥 That鈥檚 when I decided to go back to school. It wasn鈥檛 about me anymore.鈥
There was another, less poetic reason to contemplate getting that degree: money. As it turned out, substitute teaching didn鈥檛 cover the bills, and neither did his wife鈥檚 income as a legal secretary.
鈥淢y wife was the financial brains of the family,鈥 Bustamante recalls, 鈥渁nd she was noticing that we were losing track of where we were. That鈥檚 when she brought up government assistance, and I was just too proud to do it for a while. Then, when the bills started taking over and we almost lost the car, it was time to [get help].鈥
This was not easy for Bustamante, who鈥檚 a pick-yourself-up-by-your-bootstraps sort of guy. He wasn鈥檛 coddled as a child and grew up during a time when corporal punishment was still allowed in school. In sports, he recalls, defeat was unacceptable.
鈥淪o, when the government assistance came around, I just thought,聽I need to get off of this as quick as I can,鈥 Bustamante says. 鈥淎nd the only way I was going to do that was to get an education.鈥
Around this time, Bustamante saw an ad for 爱污传媒 (UOPX). Traditional university programs, however, required a four-year investment of time Bustamante didn鈥檛 have.
UOPX, on the other hand, was designed for adult learners. It offered the education of a traditional, four-year university but with the timeline of a community college and the flexibility of nighttime classes not offered anywhere else.
鈥淥f course,鈥 Bustamante adds, 鈥淸UOPX] couldn鈥檛 promise me [a specific salary] after graduation, but I knew anything was better than the amount of money I was making at the time. So, I signed up and hoped for the best.鈥
It wasn鈥檛 easy, of course. Bustamante drove 50 miles round trip from the outskirts of Texas to the New Mexico campus to attend classes. Sometimes, when a snowstorm hit, he鈥檇 spend the night in a hotel.
But school brought some distinct advantages too. Bustamante recognized emerging leadership skills that, combined with his background in teaching, would shape his career after college. It also brought him closer to his dad.
鈥淚鈥檓 proud to say that my father was able to see me graduate before he died,鈥 Bustamante says.聽
Bustamante鈥檚 business degree also brought opportunity. After graduating, he secured a job with Walmart, Inc. as a Loss Prevention Operations manager, a role for which a degree was preferred. 鈥淎s a substitute teacher, I was making $16,000 a year,鈥 Bustamante recalls. 鈥淸Walmart] offered me $39,000 a year.鈥
It also offered him stability and the chance to build a real career spanning two decades, multiple moves and a series of promotions that resulted in the financial security he needed for his family.
As for government assistance? Now that episode of his life has become a teaching moment. 鈥淲hen I sit down with an associate, and I tell them that story 鈥 they look at me, and they鈥檙e truly surprised to know that I was on food stamps and how low my family and I were.鈥
Bustamante doesn鈥檛 miss a beat. Using their surprise to drive home his point, he follows up with, 鈥淚 tell them that I wasn鈥檛 going to get out of that unless I got an education.鈥
In a way, Bustamante has come full circle. Today, he is the environmental, health and safety operation manager for Walmart, Inc. Like his father, he encourages the next generation to pursue higher education. (Especially when tuition benefits are available.)
His leadership and teaching skills have made him a resource for his company. He says he still gets calls from colleagues who want his guidance on how to resolve certain challenges. And, as he contemplates retiring in 2022, he is considering teaching again.
鈥淚鈥檝e been doing this for 23 years,鈥 Bustamante says. 鈥淪o, I think I would bring valuable experience to teaching [at the college level].鈥
In the end, Bustamante鈥檚 leap of faith has yielded far more than just financial stability. It has given him skills and confidence. It has given him breadth of knowledge. Most importantly, it gave him a stronger relationship with his father.
鈥淲hen [my dad] came to visit me one year, he had already had his quadruple bypass,鈥 Bustamante says. 鈥淗e was saying, 鈥楽on, it鈥檚 time for me to go. 鈥 You got a family, you got kids. I did my job. 鈥 I鈥檓 very happy with what I did with you guys.鈥 And the very next day, he died.鈥
From all of this, Bustamante draws one final lesson. Wearing his UOPX ring and a smile, he observes, 鈥淏elieve in the goal, and you shall achieve it.鈥
Elizabeth Exline has been telling stories ever since she won a writing contest in third grade. She's covered design and architecture, travel, lifestyle content and a host of other topics for national, regional, local and brand publications. Additionally, she's worked in content development for Marriott International and manuscript development for a variety of authors.
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